Friday, 2 November 2018

Thank you for not dating



This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.



Some might say that it's wrong for a girl to date a guy before marriage. If you ask my opinion on that fact I would brand it as "absolute absurdity". Trust me, this absurdity still prevails in most parts of my country and it is worse with the current generation. 

The problem with the current generation is, we, as the next gen species, are exposed to a wide variety of cultures across the World (thanks to the internet, access to the information is now made easy) and we have an option to choose and adapt the culture that suits our expectations (oh well, except the North Koreans). The adaptability feature comes with a vulnerability as an add-on, like a virus destroying the computer. If a person picks a certain culture and decides to adopt that, he/she should first do a compatibility check. If that particular culture is compatible with the society he lives in, then the adaptability factor is handled with ease. 

Now map the above explanation with this simple analogy - if you have a motherboard that supports a DDR3 RAM, you cannot buy a DDR2 RAM and ask the motherboard to adapt to it. You definitely need to opt for a DDR3 RAM or the only other option you've is to change the motherboard that fits the DDR2 RAM. You can change the RAM as per the motherboard's requirement but if you want to change the motherboard, it incurs additional cost. Society is the motherboard and the culture is the RAM. You cannot change the society unless you're a rebel who really want to bring in a change that each and every person out there is convinced with (this is the cost involved). The society accepts the culture only if it is compatible with it.